As-salamu alaikum. First and foremost "I am only a slave of Allah. I eat and sit just like a slave of God." My inspiration and life goal: https://youtu.be/xEWBsiVC6P8?t=119 I like to belief , i am almost there I am MUZAHEED. (BOB: 2/11/1987) Day time Profession: Software engineer. Leading team to achieve the goal for the Company . Night time Job: Research and Studying to achieve the research goal of My university Team(Politecnico di Torino) . My location is a variable. I do full time job as a team lead at Spain. But as a MSC student of Polito, i have university accommodation at turin,italy . So for sure, in next 2 years i will be keep moving in between Turin and my job location(which may change in between these years). Do not hesitate to contact me if you have any question. I will be happy to answer
My long term goals
Memorizing impotent surahs as much as possible. Learning Arabic enough so that during salalh i understand what i am reciting. And bringinng this hadith in my life: Sahih al-Bukhari 6502: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Allah said, 'I will declare war against him who shows hostility to a pious worshipper of Mine. And the most beloved things with which My slave comes nearer to Me, is what I have enjoined upon him; and My slave keeps on coming closer to Me through performing Nawafil (praying or doing extra deeds besides what is obligatory) till I love him, so I become his sense of hearing with which he hears, and his sense of sight with which he sees, and his hand with which he grips, and his leg with which he walks; and if he asks Me, I will give him, and if he asks My protection (Refuge), I will protect him; (i.e. give him My Refuge) and I do not hesitate to do anything as I hesitate to take the soul of the believer, for he hates death, and I hate to disappoint him."
Things I'm good at and enjoy
travelling,talking about techs
The first thing people notice about me
my Megamind body straucture with smile (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1001526/).
My family background and values
I am from a family where everybody is very successful in their academic life. my father did MSC from Wageningen University and Research Centre, Netherlands. Also, he attended the Ph.D. programme.My sister is moving to Japan for Ph.D. and her husband just returned from the USA after doing MSC. My mother electrical engineer. My younger brother also will follow the same path of others. unfortunately, i am the only one in my family who only have a bachelor degree. not sure if i will go for Ph.D. ofr not. to live a simple life you don't need a higher degree.
What I love most about Islam
surrender to Allah. direct line to Allah through Namaj/prayer women are prized for their inner beauty and are not seen as a product like modern world's commercial.
Things I'm looking for in a partner
If you are or have ---> minimalist mind about this world -->ready to accept that " "You are only a slave of Allah. and ready to think and live like a slave of Allah"" -->Willingness to solve problems by discussing and having a good conversation with her husband. -->Eagerness to help her husband to lower his gaze --> somebody who Is mature enough in thinking process --> somebody who can be patient to sit down and figure out each other´s fault and willing to fix by helping each other -->someone who knows Arabic would be a huge plus point for me. I am very much open to Arabic ethnicity only bcz of that reason --> Who have good understanding of Islamic value. And strives to improve it . --> if i find this 2 things into somebody then i dont care her age level. But age should not exceed 41. --> she has to be decent looking. I am not looking for a beautiful one. But Something which I can say decent enough to consider. I am not a guy who will say outside looking is nothing to me. To me, it is something to start with. --> Patience on Allah. In the end, whoever it is, I want my wife to be my best help in the way of Jannah. I could be earning thousands of $ per month. But without blessings that money could be finished in a day.And i value her effort on bringing blessings into family instead of hard effort through the worldly activities. -- I did not do much research on marriage related sunnah. but i know the basics. If my future wife can point out if i am missing any sunnah or right to fulfill to her than defiantly i will do my best to give/fulfill that right to her. But she have to bring out the point from Islamic perspective. (....to be continued )
You should message me if
Serious to get married ASAP. and open to move to europe for few early years of marraige. or ready to accept a distance marraige relationship untill that time phase.