Assalamu Alaikum. Best wishes to everybody on their search. ******************* Location : Las Cruces, NM, USA *********************** Well educated, established,spiritual, honest , romantic, hard working,dreamer I consider myself first as a slave of Allah, Then a human, a son, an engineer, and finally a businessman. InshAllah someday role as a husband and father will be added to that priority list. I make my decisions and actions based on that priority queue of identity. I like to keep everything HONEST, STRAIGHT FORWARD and most importantly BRIEF and DETAILED. ********************** I extremely dislike dishonesty, deception, tricks and overall hiding important significant stuffs which matters. The Feeling of getting betrayed and used is a big deal breaker for me. Worked in Paris, spain, Italy, Malaysia.....
My long term goals
Life Goals: Future dream to have my own consultancy which will allow me to travel all over the world with my family. Doing Hajj with my wife and mom ASAP. I am post-pending it bcz my mom needs another lady with her during Full Hajj time. Learning Arabic enough so that I can understand what I am reciting during Salah Retiring with enough money to buy a farmhouse in the middle of the green prairie and die there I am not desperate to have babies. If Allah allows us to have them then Alhamdulillah. But if don't then I prefer to adopt 2 non-muslim orphans from any war-torn country. bringing this specific beautiful inspiring hadith in life:
Things I'm good at and enjoy
On free time: Reading amazing articles on controversial Islamic topics, running through the jungle, lying down in green... Lover of cycling in green nature Biker. But I prefer to stay as a passenger. I Love to listen to Islamic lectures and Quran recitations on YouTube. My favorite is Bilal Assad and Omar Suleiman. sitting in a cafe/restaurant/parks and solving puzzles of psychology As an INTJ: I like to keep everything HONEST, STRAIGHT FORWARD and most importantly BRIEF I enjoy intellectual talking. Especially about religious topics, politics, miracles, reverse engineering of the future of the world based on Quran and hadiths, tech things. I get fascinated by the simple religious things through which Allah brings enormous amounts of blessings VS the hardship people do in daily life to achieve success in this world. I am very patient to get success in this world but less patience about emotional things. Brutal honesty which actually goes against the Islamic perspective of having a good manner.so I am working on that to remain silent instead of saying out the truth all the time As an INFJ: I am a very friendly and enjoyable trustworthy person who gives priority to other's happiness over his own happiness. I am a giver who loves to give away things for the happiness of others. I usually don't talk much but when I start I don't stop easily... when somebody gets free with me in sharing, I also feel free to share things with him/her In my Bangladeshi friend cycle, I am known as the hard disk. To my Asian friends, I am a good listener to their broken hearts. To my Spanish landlady, I am her lost son 😋. she literally asked my mom to let her adopt me. Feeling blessed to have all these heart-touching achievements as an INFJ.
The first thing people notice about me
Brightness in my face and smile
My family background and values
I am from a family where everybody is very successful in their academic life. my father did MSC from Wageningen University and Research Centre, Netherlands. Also, he attended the Ph.D. programme.My sister is moving to Japan for Ph.D. and her husband just returned from the USA after doing MSC. My mother electrical engineer. My younger brother also will follow the same path of others. unfortunately, i am the only one in my family who only have a bachelor degree. not sure if i will go for Ph.D. ofr not. to live a simple life you don't need a higher degree.
What I love most about Islam
As a Muslim: I try to pray 5 times prayer at the mosque. that's why I skip job offers which dont give me chance to access mosque in a fesible manner. And that was a core reason of changing countries. If possible than nofol Waqt's prayer. And if time allows then all the other prayers before sleep, going out of home, coming back...... I don't know how much I do all these for sake of Allah and how much I do these to keep myself busy at doing these As Ummer RA used to doubt at his every amal, the same way I doubt how much of my these practicing part show off and how much actually for sake of Allah, that only Allah knows best. SO plz don't judge me based on my daily amal , nor by my worldy success Nor judge people by their knowledge. It's now a fashion to learn about Islam and give free knowledge to everybody. Bcz some person doesn't have proper Islamic knowledge that does not mean he is bad Muslim. Maybe life did not give him enough chance to learn more about Islam. * I am a big fan of the blessings of Allah. From my life experience, I have learned happiness can be achieved through hard work. But happiness does not assure that it will provide you peace. But blessings for sure can put you in peace. And that blessings can make u fall into peaceful sleep even if you are in the middle of a battleground. We should understand the difference between Peace and happiness before pursuing them ******* I practice as much as I can in the effort of trying to keep myself busy with different deeds. My very practicing nature should not be considered as a sign of a good strict Muslim. Rather you can consider it as a sign of not being a bad Muslim who is striving to be better every day. Lone time is the most dangerous thing for a man with money living in the west. so my very practiced nature is a shield to keep myself away from haram things. I don't believe that in Islam there is anything called balanced life in between worldly life and spirituality. Islam demands to do wor
Things I'm looking for in a partner
Instead of writing down what I want, I would write down what I wish to have in my future wife. If she already possesses those qualities then that would be a blessing from Allah for me or to me. if not then I wish if she would love to have those qualities. InshAllah, we both will help each other to develop those into us. So here you go, I wish for SOMEBODY : * Who will have the patience to be ready to live in Las Cruces,NM for at least the next 2 years. And if she is from outside of the USA then another 3 to 6 months to arrange papers to bring her here. InshaAllah after 2023, we will move to Dallas or Florida. *Someone who will be as loyal to me as I'd be to her. * I wish she knows the difference between peace and happiness. and don't get confused by thinking both is the same. * somebody who understands what is tranquility between two-person when they living together *WHO will have a good ethic, moral and tries to use them in every aspect of life as a good heart human being *Who will be Ok to help her husband to take care of my relationship with Allah(i also will do the same for her) by keeping an eye on my income source, my daily deeds, and bringing sunnah in every aspect of our family and personal life. And I also will help her with the same matter, if she requires any help. *who will not mind jumping into enjoy all halal entertainment and enjoy life. *who will be eager to contribute somehow(directly or indirectly ) in Dawa by making herself an ambassador of Islam * who will not mind self-criticism as part of the constructive talk for both parties to improve ourselves. * who Not going to worship her husband as an angel, she has to accept him as a human who can be misguided and can make mistakes. *WHO WIll keep an eye on family income source, husbands actions, requests.........authenticity based on Islamic law... *WHO will be eager to be a team member to pursuit more and more blessing from Allah. **financially I am capable
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