My self-summary
I am a simple kind, honest, genuine, extremely loving, caring, responsible, calm, patient and respectful Muslim woman, with a kind and good heart. I try to follow my religion to the best of my ability and increase my knowledge of Islam and want to practice it daily in my life. Advantages of marrying me would be that you would get someone humble, understanding, supportive, protective, responsible and considerate. I believe in a good, transparent and open communication, cooperation, compromise, love, trust, respect and care between spouses in an ideal marriage and am a very good listener, friend, adviser and supporter with a good sense of humour. I have my flaws and shortcomings as we all do but I am always open to positive criticism and try to improve myself and become a better person.
My long term goals
I became a full time, stay at home mom in 2017, however, I would love to complete my studies and go on Umrah and Hajj, In Shaa Allah. One of my goals on this Dunya, is to be a better Muslimah and to observe Niqab, In Shaa Allah. I love anything that includes family, nature, outdoors, open spaces and fresh air.
Things I'm good at and enjoy
I'm quite good at making people feel loved, special and super comfortable. I love cooking and always try to find new things for everyone to enjoy.
The first thing people notice about me
My friendly and down to earth personality and my warm smile.
My family background and values
Both my parents are deceased. I only have one sister, who's Christian. (I embraced Islam, because i fell inlove with the religion and before i met my late husband)
What I love most about Islam
I love the uniformity, the same dress code, the same direction, Qiblah, oraying 5times a day, not just Sunday. The fact that your always connected to your Creator. The fact that you can go to any masjied in the world and you wont feel "strange", left out. Its amazing. Its beautiful.
Things I'm looking for in a partner
He must be a practising Muslim, love the Deen and follow the Sunnah way. He must have good morals, good family values, kind, caring, loving, honest and compassionate. Lead by example, help me, correct me if I faulter and be accepting of my children. Someone who accepts me as I am, flawed and all, widowed with 4 children and who tries to follow in our Nabi (SAW) footsteps. I'm no blonde bombshell and don't want to be. I'm exactly how I'm suppose to be, Alhamdulilah. I don't have riches to give, but would in return make it my mission to love and obey, always be loyal and honest, and go out of my way to contribute positively to my husband, his home and the other wife/wives. As i revert, i didn't always attend madrassa or as often as I would have liked, eirk and other commitments, an Islamic Scholar/teacher would be preferred. In Shaa Allah Allah knows best.
You should message me if
If you think your okay with the above, especially raising 4 young children and your South African, ages 42 - 55, your more than welcome to Whatsapp me on 27 71 320 6137 In Shaa Allah JazakAllah Khairan Wa Alaikum salaam